Number Sense — Can Attitudes Be Changed

by Congetta Bryant

     Well, now that another new year has begun, we can move forward and hope we learned our lessons from the past. A question was sent to me asking about a particular birthday, and if a person is ever too old to change their attitude and beliefs.

     As always it does depend on a number of factors, such as environment, health and mental state. Personally I feel if you have a deep commitment to change it is possible, but the change can only take place if the commitment is real.

     Of course the birth numbers have a great deal to do with personality, and decision making process, so let’s examine the numbers of the person in question.   

7 + 10 + 1 + 9 + 2 + 1 = 30 = 3

     What we have here is an 89-year-old child, and because of the (3) three ones showing up in the mix, then adding the 9 + 2 and getting (11) eleven, which is also two more ones, we actually have a total of (5) five ones. If you add the seven to it we come up to (12) twelve which is a (3) three.

     It really doesn’t matter how many different ways you add birthday numbers together, you will always come out with the same number

     If the seven is developed as a negative in childhood this person could suffer from depression, anxiety, and feeling isolated. These are certainly numbers of someone who must at all costs feel in control, no matter what the outcome. There would be a great deal of chaos caused by this person because the number (3) shows immaturity and mischief. They are self-centered because of the amount of ones and the need to have a reason to feel victimized because of the seven in a negative energy. These numbers are so strong, it would be difficult to change this energy once a pattern was set. So strong minded is this person, I doubt if at this age anything would change. I would have to wish you good luck and worlds of understanding if this is the case.

     On the positive side the numbers show a deep thinker, someone who could be very independent and a great leader, full of energy and fun. This is someone who could stay youthful, carefree and loving throughout life. I hope this person is working with the positive side of the numbers and will leave behind a memory of love.

     Another question presented, concerned work related issues and changing jobs. The person asked about the environment of the current office where she works and if there was a chance of promotion.

08 + 25 + 19 + 60 = 112
1 + 1 + 2 = 4

     Being a (4) four in life says “Hey, let me help, I can handle your problems and get everything straighten out.” Right! And, then you realize you are being dumped on by everyone, and allowing such treatment has created a big mess that makes you feel resentful.

     Fours are really good people, they just have this tendency to let things pile up on them because they find it hard to say “No.” You are in sync with 2011. Look at the numbers for the year 2011, they reduce down to a (4) four. This is a perfect year for you to realize you have taken on too much—and a well needed change is in place. If you stay where you are, you can expect more responsibility to be placed on you without compensation.

     It is the perfect time for rebuilding and setting goals for yourself. This is the year for you to reorganize and manage your personal affairs, as well as your career. It feels as though you have established a very creditable work history in a specific arena and a respected reputation as a conscientious and dedicated employee.

     Time to move on. I feel you will have opportunities presented to you in March, and by April you will be in a much better atmosphere. Try not to let yourself be the one who winds up with all the paperwork and problems this time—set your boundaries! Good luck, you are promised a good year.

Congetta

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Congetta is a regular columnist for The New Era Times. You can read more of her articles here. If you have questions or comments for her, please use her email.