Number Sense Column -- June 18, 2011

by Congetta Bryant

Dear Congetta,

     My birthday is April 3, 1970.  It seems I cannot get around one chaotic situation after another in my life. The past 18 years have been nothing but one problem after the other. I am in a relationship and his birthday is December 25, 1965. What can you tell me about our future? Will things get better for me?

Thanks, Florie



Dear Florie,

     We are entering a six (6) month, the number of the Mother, a time that will call on the instincts of protection and nurturing. As I always say, there is a positive and negative to each number, so the dark side of this month could bring about betrayal and deceit that will bring forth feelings of abandonment and confusion.

     Your numbers show me you are 4 + 4 + 1 + 7 = 16 = 7.  You are the kind of person everyone wants for a friend because of your double 4’s. Four represents the salt of the Earth people, the energy of the four is to help and take on problems of others because you tend to feel obligated to bring order to their problems. However, you have become the victim of your own good nature.

     When you take care of everyone else first, you become second. Your life is out of control because you have tried to resolve everyone’s dilemmas whereas allowing your own to pile up.

     You have an instinct to love and care, and since we are in a six (6) month cycle, you are going to have to deal differently with the recent chaos in your life. Being a good mother sometimes calls for discipline and understanding when your children are taking advantage of you.

     Now is the time for change. A time to give up being dependent on others and find out what lessons you have not learned in the past. The reason your life stays in a state of chaos is because you keep allowing the same pattern to repeat and you keep reacting the same way.

     The best tool is to learn to say “NO, I can’t help you; I have to take care of me first.” If you really want change then take back the control you have given everyone else over your good nature.

     I feel your children need more involvement and family time, but because you are trying to save everyone else, you are ignoring them.

     The relationship you are in…well…I don’t feel like it really is a relationship…more like you are carrying the burden of someone who is really a loner and very into himself. You feel a need to comfort and cater to him, yet I don’t feel you get that back.

     You have a fear that if no one needs you, you will feel empty and alone, that the only way to keep friends is to find the ones who need help so you can rescue them.

     Take a good inventory of the people in your life and try to be honest about the negativity they carry. Maybe you need to ask yourself how many of them would be there for you and to what degree? A few would be, but not all. Time to cut the apron strings. You can’t mother the world.

     There are those who you need to protect, and those you need to rid yourself of—including the relationship you are currently in.

     You have a chance to make a huge difference in your life this year because it is a four (4) year, thus you are in sync with the Universe and will be receiving help from your Guides as well as the vibration of the Four year.

     You should be working in a medical environment, I see you in a new job by the middle of June, one that gives you a fresh start.

     Stay away from the psychic vampires who you allow to drain all your positive energy.

     This is the year you can stand up for yourself and bring about a positive new dimension that can only make things better for you.

     I feel strongly you will take control and gain the confidence you need.

God Bless, Congetta

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